Overcleaning, vigorous cleaning, or using a cleanser that is too strong can produce symptoms very similar to an infection. The skin may be very tender and appear shiny, and there may be a clear discharge. Friction caused by tight or heavy clothing, rough sexual activity, or excessive movement of the area can cause dark redness, keloids, discharge, and rejection/migration. Stress, poor diet, or illness can cause longer healing times, or migration of the piercing Often, a cleanser reaction or other problem is mistaken for a metal allergy. The area may feel hot and sore, like a low-grade infection, or the body may attempt to pull away from the metal, resulting in a large, growing cavity. Occasionally, the selected jewelry may not be appropriate. This may or may not be due to circumstances that occurred after the piercing. If the jewelry is too thin or too heavy, too large or too small in diameter, or not the appropriate style ( a barbell instead of a ring, for example), you may experience healing problems. Contact your piercer if you suspect that you may need different jewelry.